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Wednesday, April 1, 2009

BUILDING GOOD FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS (II)

hello. this is in link to building good family relationships. i don have any more points to make, but it's my personal experience (:

lately, i've been sleeping pretty late. like 2 days ago, i slept at 1230, cause i was trying to rush out my homework. which parent doesn't want their own child to work hard and obtain good results? my father is definitely an exception .

i was like telling him ' i want to do finish my homework first, i'll sleep by time .
then he was like ' dont do. so late alr. who ask you dont want do earlier. go school tomorrow do.'
i replied ' i'll definitely wake up late tmr, please, let me finish first?'

he kept quiet and left the room. just when i thought i was going to get peace and quiet, and be able to concentrate on my homework, he started playing music. it was like those opera chinese music ._. well yeah. you all know that teenagers usually don appreciate that kind of music right? i don't. but i was trying to control my temper and not flare up at him. he's sooo not understanding ):

so i took my chinese compo book and went to the kitchen, where the music wasnt so loud there. but he increased the volume of his phone's music player, and walked to the kitchen and left his phone there. i was so tempted to shout and scream you know, D: it was CHINESE homework somemore. i really need to focus alot on my chinese, otherwise i wouldnt be able to get one word on the piece of paper. my chinese is that pathetic. and well, yeah. he changed the music. to guo mei mei's ' kan jian zhang lang, wo bu pa bu pa' . so outdated =/

P.S. im not trying to be rascist, so i'll translate. it means 'when i see cockroaches, im not scared'. um, yeah .

back to topic :O
sooo. it's very obvious he was deliberately doing that to annoy me. i grabbed my compo book and ran back to my room and tried to rush out the rest of my compo. i was really tired and really annoyed by then. ):

he walked back into my room and stood there for five mins, playing the music. it was only when my tears started to fall that he went off. seriously, shheeesh ):

well. i guess he does that cause he wants me to give up and stop doing, to do tomorrow, and to make me learn a lesson : to not leave my homework so late.

sigh, thank God i managed to control my temper. otherwise i would really make things awkward at home and put my mom in a predicament .

eexin (: